Bitching….I’m sure everyone loves to have a good rant to their friends about how awful people are but some people take it too far; they take it to a destructive level for their own personal gain. Ex’s are a GREAT example of people who tend to do this; they get way too caught up in trying to forget a certain person who no longer plays a major role in their life so they lie, twist the truth and manipulate those around them until they can sit back and say “Ahhh I feel so much better now,” whilst making the other person appear to be a manipulative, pathetic excuse for a person…Oh and the best part? The person being bitched about usually finds out through other people, the person doing all the ‘story making’ isn’t man enough to say it face to face you see…Why? [you might ask] WELL because it’s a lie, and EVERY top notch liar knows that in the liars 101 handbook the most important rule is “Never lie to the face of the person who knows the truth; they will make a fool out of you…you cannot risk, this always remember to be one with your cowardness.”
Meredith Brooks captured the true essence of what is means to be a bitchy person, especially in this line; “Rest assured that when I start to make you nervous, and I'm going to extremes; tomorrow I will change, and today won't mean a thing.” Meaning a bitchy person they can decide to do a 180 degree personality change because they do what suits them best at all times; and in the end what happened yesterday will mean next to nothing because of that change…One of my friends would call this specific type of person a ‘transformer,’ due to the fact that they seem all awesome and lovely at the start and then “BAM” the fangs and webbed wings sprout from their skin and they take flight as the blood thirsting animalistic person that they are; searching for nothing other than the complete annihilation of their targets lovely life, or what is left of it.
But why be bitchy in the first place anyway? If you need to feel better about yourself you shouldn’t even consider is bitching; I mean what does it achieve other than temporary satisfaction? Even if the person did wrong by you; how does you stooping to their level it make all fine? It doesn’t, it just shows that you aren’t mature enough to be the bigger person in the situation. If they did nothing wrong by you and you just are ‘in the mood’ for a bitchfest then get a diary and a fluffy pen, because you’re acting like the little girls aged between nine and thirteen who use them every time they think they have a crush on someone, when people in their life act like ‘poo poo heads’ and lastly when they get their first period…So to those of you who are now flicking through the k-mart catalogue for an affordable diary I salute you, you are officially immature.
My final words of advice, act your age not your shoe size :)
